“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with
another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change
you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you
are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or
frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about
something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it
is about you that is making you unhappy. ”
― Wayne W. Dyer
How true, one has to take responsibility for their own problems and insecurities, then they will find a person they can like, themselves. Otherwise they will go through life with false pride and hate themselves for not being honest with themselves.
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